I had a very interesting/annoying conversation with someone about child advocacy...to sum it up it with something like "Why should I worry about how other parents raise their kids? My children don't act like that, they make good grades, and I know they have a future. None of this stuff that you advocate for will effect Tristan (my son) or my children because the those laws weren't made for good kids." Let me set the record straight- yes I only have one biological child, but I have many many children...how many? All of them. The kids at the school, the community, the church, on the "Feed the Children" commercials, they are all mine. It is personally important to me that each of them have the opportunity to get an education and the ability to affect their environment, not to simply become a product of it. For me (and hopefully for you), it is not enough that 'our (biological) kids' have these opportunities, but that every child does. Now, I could pretend that chances for children to excel are at the top of every parent's priority list, but we all know that is not the truth. While I won't get into the reasons of why I believe that is so, I hope that you will still acknowledge this important truth. Why? First, it takes a community to raise a child. It is not just a saying, it is a concept proven by social research. No parent(s) has all of the resources, wisdom, patience, skill, or ability to handle every situation, the best way possible, giving 100%, to every child, every possible time. We all need help, even me, "Child Advocate #1." Thus it becomes our responsibility to offer our help to those who need it. And our children need it!!! Second, it is important that we show our children that apathy does not work and they must take responsibility for their community. This includes reaching out to others. Third, your children are not living in a bubble and will be affected by the world. If you fail to ensure that the other kids in your community are at least given the opportunity to succeed, your children will eventually be affected by that failure.
So, to wrap this up, I offer you a challenge: 1) pick at least two videos (linked below) and consider the following questions and then post your answers in the comment space below. Thanks!
- If the child(ren) in the video continues to grow without any intervention, what will that mean for their future?
- If your child was placed alone in a room with this child for 3 hours, what would happen?
- How can you intervene in the lives of children in your community?
Links ***CONTAINS EXTENSIVE PROFANITY***
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdAkwf6Sns8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPo-o2ZbqI8&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zCDxMCoDnpI&feature=relatedhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3Azc3AZb2Y
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CQu3OmLE4E&feature=related
